Bring Your Best

We have a habit of just doing what needs to be done. We go to work and just do what is needed. We go home it is the same, we just show up. Here is the thing I am not going to tell you to go to a job you hate and do your best…

Are You What You Focus On?

I don’t have enough money. I just don’t have the energy to workout. I don’t know what to write. I am not that good at drawing, there are people much better than me. I just don’t know how to act around people I don’t know. I am just not good with money. I don’t know…

Changing Goals

What I learned from actors, artist, and writers: Goals are important but ever changing. When a creative really commits to being an artist, writer, dancer, actor, whatever, they have changing goals. You see that they are committed to being an artist. They are committed to being a writer. They are committed to being what they…

The Joy of Being

There is nothing that you can do that isn’t you. You might feel like you are living a lie, you are pretending to be someone you are not, you are not living up to your potential. Truth be told you might be, but the problem isn’t with the situation. The problem is with your reactions….

Two Stories

Everybody has a story. Right now lets focus on two types of stories; tragedy or a triumph. Most people treat their life and work life like a tragedy. They go at their work like slaves, they continue to work without the hope of doing more. They go home and continue the cycle of doing and…

Breathe in Expand Breathe out

Breathe in fear, hesitation, and doubt. Hold it. Just like a taking in a breathe of air we want to let it go. We can not live with it we need to let it go and take in a new breathe. So, take another breathe. Breathe in excitement, confidence, and adventure. And Just like before…

Build Your Life On What You Give

It is funny, the fact that we all have personality types, we fit into  categories and personality types. For some of us we hate the idea; so, we try and rebel against it, but I think the best thing  we can do is roll with it. For instance my personality type (INTP) finds solutions for…

Commit To Your Dreams

It is is to wish for the things we want in life.  It  is also easy to wish to travel. Wishing is easy because you don’t actually have to do anything. You know deep down that you are not going to act on your wish.  It is a wish after all and not one you…

Hardware Vs Software

You are built of genetic make up. It has a lot of influence on how you are wired. Some people are wired wrong and they suffer from depression, it is a pain for them to live, and that is truly sad. We all have things that are genetic to us for instance, our personality. Take…

To Thine Own Self Be True

There is a part of us that wants to run with the herd. That part that wants to fit in, feel like we belong, like we have a reason for being here. We strive to be normal, even the exceptional people strive to fit in with their exceptional group. Yet, There are few places we…

Two Things To Know When Setting Goals

This is going to be a quick post. When setting your goals you need know to there are two types of indicators and what they are. The first is the Lag Indicator: it will tell you how you have done. For instance if your goal is to lose weight, save money, or run faster; you…

A Letter To My Readers

Hello, I am writing to you because, you are there to read this. I have a vague notion on why you read this blog, I think it comes from the same place I write it from. It is the need to understand how we will get by in a simple and complex world.  How we…