There are things in life we do not want to do. There are people we do not want to deal with and moments we would all together try to avoid. We can view these hardships as punishment for something we are unsure of or as a trial to test our character, or as I would like to see it a moment for us to shine, a moment to rise above the crowd as a person who can handle shitty situations.
Here is the thing, we control a majority of the results of our experiences by virtue of our mindset.
The price of positive action is getting your mindset right. Getting your mindset right requires a lot of self talk, as far as I know.