The best thing you could do today is to feed your mind something new. We fall into nature too much when we don’t try new things, read new ideas, or talk to someone new. Instead, we dig deep grooves of thought about something we already know. We unintentionally build a mindset that is closed.
The solution is to feed that mind of yours. Read a book that might be over your head. Listen to the opposition for a long time not to deconstruct where they are coming from, but to understand which emotion is driving their behavior. Build new paths of thinking by refusing to handle situations the way you always have. To think differently is to grow.